There is a kind of intelligence, called cold treatment(2)

  God gave Mr. Zhang the chance not to lose the cup twice, but unfortunately he always gives vent to his temper rashly and never stops to think calmly once, so he is doomed to lose the cup. What is " Cold Treatment Problem"? The problem of cold treatment is not to make any decision when you are angry and angry.In the face of contradictions or emergencies, put it aside and let it dry until you calm down. Cold treatment is a kind of maturity, but also a kind of wisdom. It can effectively ease the contradiction and avoid making some out-of-line actions. Most of the people in the state of being angry have destructive desires. Whether they can contain their destructive desires becomes the key to good or bad temper. A good-natured person has little desire for destruction, and seldom uses words or actions to hurt others.The bad-tempered person, who is willing to destroy, often explodes at once and is keen to retaliate against those who irritate him with fierce words or actions. " People have an IQ of 0 at the moment of anger and return to normal in a minute." As a result, many tragedies or tragedies were caused by people in extreme anger. Once the moment of rage is over, they will all regret their mistakes. So don't be hot-headed when something goes wrong. Give yourself and others a cold treatment time, which can be one day or one hour, even if it's just a few minutes. After learning to cool down, you will find that your temper will become better and better.