If you think too much, you will drag yourself down first

  Blind thinking is a powerful solvent that can dissolve your face, health, career, love and mood.

 Combined with a few small things happened yesterday, I deeply felt that thinking too much would destroy a person. 

  On my way to work, I listened to an audio program. The host said that a girl felt very difficult to work. She used to encourage her female boss to be indifferent to her.

 She worries about everything from job performance investigation to workplace etiquette, slows down every frame of her memory, thinks about where she has disappointed her boss, worries about whether she will be fired by her boss, and worries about insomnia and anxiety.

 After the event, she learned that the female boss had just beaten meat poison and breathed a sigh of relief in her heart.

 Thinking too much ruined her confidence and health.

  During lunch, colleagues talked about the topic of soaking feet. A colleague said that putting some pepper and pepper in the soaking water during the cold weather was particularly comfortable.  

  Then a male colleague began to think differently, saying that when he soaked his feet, he added a little onion and garlic, so that the water for soaking his feet was delicious and could be used as a soup base for cooking noodles. 

 After he painted lifelike images full of details, he was disgusted with his appetite.  

 Thinking too much ruined his appetite and mood.

 We usually say that when we think too much, we do not mean to think objectively, but to think subjectively of some negative and some negative things. 

  Always thinking blindly = wasting time + dragging down emotions + thinking about hurting the body + suffering from gain and loss + relationship imbalance + blackening others + drilling the horns of a bull ...  

 In fact, most of these blind thoughts will not happen, but we think too much as if we were going through all these bad things.

 If people think too much, they will consume themselves from all aspects. 

 I received a private letter some time ago.

 There was a boy in his junior year. It was not easy to find jobs for senior students who were older than himself. 

  He began to panic. He didn't join the Party, didn't have a skill, didn't have a future direction, and didn't know what he wanted to do and what he could do in the future.

  The boy felt confused about the low visibility in the future. I was much more serious than he was. I wanted to worry about losing sleep for a semester. 

  The way to extricate myself is to listen to the truth and see the true feelings.

 At that time, I didn't want to take part in one's postgraduate examination directly, and I liked my major but didn't want to take it as a career, and based on my own situation, I went to find a suitable employment path. 

  At that time, I was interested in foreign trade. Besides studying English and taking an examination certificate, I went to Yiwu to find an internship job. In just a month or two, I learned a lot about interview practice, training of new people, business etiquette and foreign trade affairs. 

  With this experience as a base, I seem to know how to take the first step after graduation.

 You may not know what to do in the future, but you have to do something now. It's certainly good to find a direction. If you don't find it, at least let you rule out a wrong option.

 When I was reading Harvey Ike's book " Rich People Are Different from What You Think," there was an analogy in the corridor. I thought it was wonderful.

 " If you really want to know an industry and do it, you don't have to get everything ready on the first day, first set foot in the corridor, many doors of opportunity open, and look at people and jobs coming and going from different doors in the corridor, you will find a suitable entry point for yourself.

  Thinking too much will not bring us closer to the truth, but will only hold us back and delay our progress in experiencing and feeling.

 In fact, when you face, experience and feel, you will find things much easier than you think.

 I once had afternoon tea with several girlfriends and talked about the advantages of the opposite sex, which we women will benefit most from after studying.

 One of the girlfriends said that men don't think too much like our women, and this answer won the highest praise in the whole court. 

  Compared with men, many women around me and I have more or less thought too much, especially when it comes to emotional issues. 

 Once I was a matchmaker and introduced my girlfriend to my male colleagues. After their first blind date, my male colleagues only felt " good character and looked everywhere".

  And my girlfriend told me a lot about the family name of the man, whether it's good to name it or not, the constellation and age of the two are out of step with each other, comparing the differences in marriage customs between the two hometown, analyzing the influence of the man's character on the parent-child relationship, and whether to live with in-laws in the future ... 

  I was bored and met for the first time. My girlfriend has been thinking about life for the next few years.

  A few days ago I comforted my brokenhearted girlfriend, who admitted that she wanted too much to deform her feelings.

 She is keen to go to the man's social account to spy on him. She worries about her boyfriend's coming out of the closet when she sees close same-sex messages, and worries about her boyfriend's cheating when she sees hot opposite-sex messages.

  In addition to using imagination to deduce facts, she often puts out some situation questions to test her boyfriend's intentions and later tests human nature.

  Her boyfriend took her to see her parents. When his mother learned that his girlfriend's parents were self - employed, she asked her girlfriend's parents if they had pension insurance.

 My girlfriend's parents clearly have insurance, but she wants to test her boyfriend and his family, insisting that there is no insurance. After that, she accused her boyfriend of not acting, and her boyfriend accused her of dishonesty, which became the fuse of breaking up.

 My girlfriend, when she was single, did not break free and easy in her natural and unrestrained manner, and there was no lack of fun in her independence. After she talked about love, she was suspicious, jealous, detective every day, then suspicious, quarrelling and breaking up. 

 Love is the most jealous of blind thinking and temptation, just like your mobile phone, you should trust it and don't have to worry about getting caught in the rain occasionally, but thinking about testing it is equivalent to putting it in a water basin and breaking it sooner or later.

 It is better to spend some of your spare time on building your own software and hardware. The luxury of security cannot satisfy your feelings.

  Even if the man who has his own track and script fails you, it's no big deal if you have a card and bottom spirit.