Reflect about your goals may help you to identify your own priority in life. Regarding the steempress tag, I did get upvote without the steempress tag before. It is still nice to put the tag to get more people into using steempress and get the benefit of it. Just a thought. I started using the steempress tag again actually. All the best and just message me in discord if you need my 1-cent worth of advice for your own research.