If there's no TRUST, what else left in a relationship?
"Trust is the key for a long lasting relationship besides love. "
What if you have no trust toward your partner after few years down the road?
What if he/she gives you blank promise and could not fulfill it? Slowly, there comes to the accumulation of unhappiness and bad impression.
People say relationship is like points system, there are positive point and negative point. I do not like this statement, but I found it quite true in real life experiences. Trust will breakdown progressively when he/she failed to reach your expectation for everytime.
Is this one of the process of love?
How to resolve it if the trust has gone?
We have two options, break up and move on or resolve the problem intentionally.
That's terrible and miserable if you are holding grudge among both of you.
Share with me on how do you resolve the relationship problem with your partner~
- How long is your cool off period after an disagreement/quarrel?
- Will you able to calm yourself down and resolve it within the day before sleeping?
- What are the important keys/ rules to keep your relationship going for so long?
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I'm seven years in a relationship and we solve our problems with a good old talk (sometimes we include a bottle of fine vine :)...
We actually listen to each other and I think that we both have a good communication skills and that is the most important thing in a healthy relationship... Maintaining peace, unity and respect between us :)
Also, we understand that there are other viewpoints on the same matter. We can agree to disagree and move on :) We don't bother each other to see the world as we see it. And different viewpoints are enriching the relationship...
Trust is also important - we don't hide anything from each other and that is freedom! When you can express your feelings and thoughts without judgement and be yourself... Love and truth are the best friends of a great relationship :)
Always resolve problems when they appear and don't delay them! Before you go to bed at night - let your problems be resolved...
Have a great day, see you around :)
Wow such an idealistic way of getting along well with each other in a relationship. But yes it's difficult to express your thought without judgement. Sometimes will get rough and rougher the more I talk. 😂 Or cool off for few days. But once again, your sharing is very enlightening.
We are not an ideal couple, but we strive to be that one day :) And these are the tips that we practice...
In these seven years that we are together, we've been in all kinds of shit together. In our fourth year we found out that he has lymphoma cancer and that made us think about everything again...
That turned us upside down and now we try to enjoy our life as much as we can. Some expectations died here and some other were born...
It's not easy when your partner doesn't fulfill your expectations, but we put a lot of them on our partners and some of them are not real...
Don't know in what situation you are, but I wish you all the best in resolving it. If it goes right, give us that tips :) Cheers, my friend, see you around :)
Very encouraging sharing. Sometimes, I admit we are still living in a dream like a princess but the reality isn't like that. Then we feel upset on what we got and do not want to work on it.
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