Never Judge Who You Know Nothing About
The opinion of others about a person could shape the way you view the person.
I have a pastor friend whom from the opinion of others is a core women's man (In popular term "womanizer") and based on the pre-opinion I had conceived about him I began to view certain parameters in the light of my preconceptions namely:
#i. He always had girls and women in his company
#ii. He always gave a hug whether solicited or unsolicited for.
I almost concluded that the general opinion was true, until i became his friend and studied him deeper. I realized he always gave what women cherish the most, which are:
*Time
*Love
*Money
I discovered he lives a selfless life at his expense, at the expense of his wife and children.
And I wondered which woman won't love such a man...