Essay

A friend said, what you need to find in the end is yourself, where is your interest and enthusiasm, what you want to do, and what kind of value you believe in and what kind of person you are. On your way to becoming yourself, you will have the opportunity to meet people who are equally interested in these things and identify with these values. There will be your best friend and lover among these people.

If you feel that you can't find a life partner, it's mostly because you haven't decided what kind of person you are.

He also said that the real meeting is that you don't know what will happen between you. you have lived together for a period of time. you surrender to the impermanence of fate and accept every moment and every possibility between you.

And the appearance and departure of everyone in your life also have ta season just like the seasons, sometimes it happens, sometimes it dies. It may be a day or a lifetime. You only need to cherish every day that you still have a chance to cherish, and then wait for the judgment of fate.

Although his point of view is somewhat negative, it gives me some enlightenment. Most of us have the obsession to try to control the situation. But in front of creation, how small our will is. realizing this kind of smallness, instead, we can have a kind of prudent relief to accept things beyond our control.