“INTIMACY”

Intimacy is not who you let hold your waist on a cold rainy night…
Intimacy is not who you let kiss your lips until they run dry…
Intimacy is not who you let drag your pants down…

Intimacy is not moving in to live together with someone whom you’re not married to…
Intimacy is not taking a shower with someone who hasn’t asked your hand in marriage…
Intimacy is not sharing the same toothbrush and yet have different goals and visions…

Intimacy is who you stay up all night with talking about hopes, dreams, and goals rather than having sex…
Intimacy is who you let hold your hands to pray over your challenges…
Intimacy is who you call, text and ping at 3am when you can’t sleep with that scary dream and fears…

Intimacy is giving someone your attention when ten other people are asking for it…
Intimacy is the person always at the back of your mind no matter how distracted you are…
Intimacy is knowing when that person is in the mood to talk and when they need to be alone…

Intimacy is when you completely laugh and appreciate each other’s jokes no matter how boring it sounds...
Intimacy is when you attend Church together lifting holy hands…
Intimacy is when you are comfortable with not only sharing your thoughts and emotions with someone, but also knowing that they can do the same for you…

Intimacy is going to bed every night with the trust that someone is not cheating on you…
Intimacy is when you can fart in their face without feeling shy…
Intimacy is when they know something is bothering you without being told…
Intimacy is when that plate of garri and groundnut you’re sharing together is tasting like fried rice and chicken…

There’s a big God up there who wants you to enjoy the very best of relationships, but all that He ask is that YOU DO IT RIGHT! No matter what it is you might have going on already, I want you to never forget that you can ONLY get the best of EVERYTHING with GOD in it!