It is very sad that the brothers passed away in the same year. May your uncle rest in peace. I wish you and your family patience.
On the other hand, you experienced one of the most beautiful days in the world by meeting your first grandchild. Congratulations to her mom and dad. Btw, Alice is very lucky to have a grandfather like you 🌸
Both my father and uncle were raised with the belief that there was heaven afterwards. If that is true, there is no reason to be sad for them. As for my emotions, my feelings for both of these men are unchanged. They are just in another room.
Regrettably, I have yet to meet Alice in person. My duties caring for my mother preclude travelling to her (they are in Alberta, and I am in Ontario).