When I look at my past, when I remember my bad or sad experience, I am saying now how stupid I was to be sad or cry for that! Sometimes I am even smiling for them.. As the years pass and our experiences increase, we learn how to be mature, how to overcome a hard situation.. The only thing we should do is just to take our lessons from the experiences other than complaining and saying why it happened to me, I didnt deserve it.. We should learn to be stronger next time..