What it's like to love?
Society has painted us various stereotypes about what it is to love, where we see stories, novels and movies with happy endings, we listen to songs with very romantic lyrics. But what we don't know is how love really is.
This peculiar attitude is also based on the fact that, individually or in combination, they tend to sustain them, since most people have the problem of being loved and not loving.
FOR EXAMPLE: In the #man, his main goal is to succeed, to be powerful and rich as social margin permits and in the #woman, it consists of being attractive, body care and clothing.
There are many ways to be attractive to the opposite sex, having nice, interesting and useful conversations, being modest and harmless, where the cultural essence is popular for there to be a sex appeal.
Such an attitude has infinite causes, and many of us believe that there is nothing to learn about love, and we have in our belief that LOVING IS SIMPLE AND HOW DIFFICULT IT IS TO FIND AN APPROPRIATE OBJECT TO LOVE.
The sensation of falling in love only develops to the human merchandise, which are within our possibilities of exchange, since we only look at the external, wanting to prove to be a desirable person, view of a good social value taking into account the values and potentialities. That way two people fall in love when they feel they have found the best object available on the market.
Just as we have learned to live, so we must learn to love, for LOVE is a behavior that must be learned, like any other art, music, painting, medicine or engineering.
And perhaps this is the reason why the people of our culture, despite their failures, have not learned because they have not had the opportunity to learn.
The active character of love involves certain basic and common elements:
Caution
Responsibility
Respect
Knowledge
LOVE implies care and is evident in a mother's love for her child. Being #responsible means being ready and willing to respond. Respect means worrying about the other person and developing as he or she is. But the #knowledge has another relationship, since it is the basic need to merge with another person to transcend.
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