Being human

in #life6 years ago (edited)

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Never give up on what makes you special, see it, grasp it and never leave it unattended. Our greatest strength is often perceived as our greatness. The ability to not only do good, but rather, be good to all around us. Trials and tribulations may come, but in life, we must really define who we are, what our codes are and we must stick by it till the end.

Everyone is special, always remember that, the people you love and entrust your being to, and might even be the ones to make you less special. Remember that at the end, when someone tries to make you feel less special, you have the final say as to whether or not to remain special. Don’t put people down because you don’t know how much damage your words can cause.

It is difficult being a pillar of support but remember that sometimes it is not all about you. Where are you in people’s darkest moments? Are you a rock or the reason why the person will need a rock? Will you put aside your own minor issue for the major issue or will you prefer to be another issue to handle? Every action or step we take causes a ripple in the lives of other people.

Even words uttered in anger can never be retracted; the effects of those words can further worsen an already worse case. Truthfully, we must be willing to accept in equal measure, what we dish out. That said, it can further mean that whatever we say and do to others equally applies to us. When we know the effects of certain things on us, we must not do them to others. But at the end, people will always be who they are.

Behind every smile is a story to tell, some smiles hide depression, some hide pain, some hide hunger, some hide fear, some hide betrayals, some hide greed…We should never assume a smile is an actual indication of happiness. A smile can be faked, but can you fake happiness? The resounding answer is a no! happiness comes from a decision, a decision to see the good in the bad, more like a silver lining to the dark cloud. Some choose to find it, others choose not to and like I will always say; it is a big matter of choice.

I could go on about why to choose wisely and how to make a good choice, but at the end, the ultimate decision rests on our shoulders. Even if we fight or run from it, it will always arrive at that junction where we simply have to choose or our indecision becomes a choice on its own. Just remember that you are a treasure, you are special and the world still needs and love you.

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Bravo! I also tell my friends to expect little from others always so that they don’t get offended in others because of higher expectations placed on them.

For me, I don’t live my life to prove anything to any anyone, rather I live my life knowing that life is a gift 🎁💝 and gift is meant for others.

Thanks 🙏🏽Boss.

Live a happy life

This is @maxdevalue

Really good
I've learnt in life we need to discover who we really are, and then we would be able to make good decisions about our selves,the kind of people we keep, the ones we associate our selves with.
We should always look for that one thing that makes us special not withstanding what others say, that thing that makes us unique and never leave it.
Always be your self

Preach it bruv! Peeps need to hear these. Mike Murdock says what we make happen for others, God would make happen for us. If we put that thought into perspective, we'll never dish out disrespect or meaness or dishonor to our fellow human beings. Thanks for these words of wisdom @Ehiboss

Thanks so much for the words...

You have the final say...

Yes sir

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