It's a good thing that you are getting it together at 30. Keep it up, because you will have another reflection when you turn 40. It's just the way it is. Live a life with purpose and direction. Focus on the things you can change and less on the things you can't.
Great post!
hey thanks for the support, and thanks for the heads up on 40! any general things to be mindful of? or is it more or less the same general "crisis" as 30?
Nah. There is nothing I can tell you now at 30 that'll get you ready for 40. A lot can happen in 10 years. Just do your best to make it a well lived 10 years. Seek first the Kingdom of God and love your wife as Christ loves the Church. The rest will fall into place.