Hi, I'm new here, it's nice to be onboard and meeting you!

I have always been afraid of being honest with everyone else, that's because I'm constantly fearful of the repercussions I might get in return for being a straight shooter. So from back when I'm just a kid, I always try my best to keep people around me happy.

Innately, I understood enough the dynamics within a social environment that allows me to avoid the worst case scenarios and yet stay off the radar of the hit list.

I'm born as a Chinese in a (thankfully) multi-racial asian state. Growing up in that environment has its tough moments, but definitely not impossible. I hang out mostly with my female cousins because I have an age gap between my male cousins. Probably that early conditioning caused me to relate better with the ladies, but more in a platonic kind of way.

Being rash at a younger age, I am not the ideal child that studies hard and stayed obedient to my parents. I got into fights and do lots of dumb things (picture an asian Mr Bean), but I never really stood out at any moment. I'm what most people termed an all-rounder.

Growing up, I realise the most precious memories I've kept deep within me, are the interactions and relationships I had with girls around me. Whatever drama scripts that are out there, I've mostly lived through these heart-wrenching twists and turns.

Now that I'm 30 and married, I would like share my life journey from back when I was 12 till today. Mostly about girls, some life lessons learnt and how a Chinese, nerdy kid grew up into a resolute man.

I'll share more personal details in the future updates, meanwhile, stay awesome!

Warmest regards,
Edmund Lee