5 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF BEFORE A BREAK UP!!! # 3 & 4

3. Do you have any weakness that could encourage splitting up?
Weaknesses are not meant to be celebrated but to be identified and worked on especially if they have become so pronounced that they can be identified by others. The error most people make is praising their weakness by saying things like “this is the way I was made and I cannot help it. You have to take me for who I am if you really love me”. You don’t leave an empty land the way it is and expect it to someday yield pleasant fruits. The same applies to everything in this world. That is why you were taken to school at an early age to be taught values and not left alone. Taking little steps to make the change and improve on your weaknesses would be the most effective way upwards. Do not be reluctant to seek for help from trusted friends, family members and counselors. Read books about your challenges to help you overcome them easily.

4. How about your strengths, are they contributing to the challenges?
When it comes to relationship issues, it is always advisable to consider every aspect. As much as the weakness are examined, the strength also need to be examined to check for any lapses. For example, an overly meticulous person who always want to know every detail could be mistaken for a perfectionist and considered to be a nitpicker. Likewise, being overly loving, could also be seen as being excessively dominating or restrictive to the freedom of one’s partner. Ponder over these points to ensure that you are not doing things the wrong way.

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