@theokritos36 thank you for your kind words.. much appreciated.. i do proud of my achivmeents as well as my dads.. now i am proud dad myself.. my dad has coached me to chose the path and as per him the life i am living is better than his.. but as a son i see the beauty of his life and appreciation for the kind of life he is leading .. now its the time for me to coach my son in right direction .. the post i have done is more introspecting myself and also there could be several other guys / girls like me who might facing the same dilemma.. it would be interesting to see few more members share their thoughts ..