Why to be against Abortion

"It only takes a minute to create a life, and 1 hour to destroy it".

It's always hard when you have to take a decision that might break your heart, and even more when it comes to be your future; a life that it's not planned but it shows accidentally and it becomes a blessing but never a curse. Even though it's not on your plans to be a mother soon. 

A child is always a blessing, because they don't have the fault of our decisions as a grown persons.

There's a few facts that I want to share, according to what I believe in.

1. Every abortion kills an innocent human being, every new life begins at conception. This is an irrefutable fact of biology. When considered alongside the law of biogenesis.
2. Every human being is a person, that it actually has nails and hair few months later of conception. YES, they do have nails and hair... Also a beating heart.
3. Beggining at conception every pregnancy involves two or more bodies; or what you're expecting? Women don't have four arms and four legs. Those extra appendages belong to a tiny body living inside of her, and it becomes one.
4. The right to not to be killed supersedes the right to not be pregnant
5. Abortion is condemnable for the same reasons that slavery and genocide are, networks of killing centers across the globe are eliminating "unwanted, unborn" children at a staggering rate.
6. Abortion is not a "Woman's Issue" only, because it affects both of them, men and women. Beyond that, abortion is a human issue, not a gender issue. If abortion kills innocent human life, and it really does, then everyone, male and female should be against it.

And I'll give you all some heartbreaking stories about women that it actually had an abortion:

•  “I flushed my baby in the toilet and it was horrifying. And it didn’t help me to graduate. It’s been nineteen years and to this day, I don’t have a degree. Seven years later, I got pregnant again. The father was twice my age and he was abusive. Abortion was the quick fix solution to protect myself and my baby from the abuser. So I went to a clinic and in great anxiety, I was put to sleep. When I woke up with blood on my legs, I burst into tears and I was inconsolable. I sank deeper and deeper into depression and suicidal thoughts.Then, I met my husband and he brought Jesus into my life but I was still hurting. When I was pregnant with our first child, my abortions resurfaced and the guilt was overwhelming. I went to counseling and I started to heal. Later, I attended a Rachel’s Vineyard Retreat and finally, I was able to forgive myself and find peace.Abortion promised to free me from two crisis situations and instead, it has nearly destroyed me. But there is hope for all those who are hurting and it is for them that I am Silent No More.”
   
• At 9 1/2 weeks gestation, I had an abortion. It nearly killed me. No, not the surgical procedure, the psychological aftermath. I attempted suicide three times after my abortion and finally ended up in an adolescent psychiatric ward of a community hospital for a month to recover. […] Working in the autoclave room was never, ever easy. I saw my lost child in every jar of aborted baby parts. One night after working autoclave my nightmares about dead babies were so gruesome and terrifying and intense I met with the clinic’s director to talk about my feelings. She was very understanding, open and honest, and painfully forthright when she told me, “What we do here is end a life. Pure and simple.”

There's a poem that I'll leave you all, because it got into my skin and made me cry.

Dear baby unborn,
You came out of the blue.
I took a pregnancy test,
And then I knew,

My world turned upside down.
Inside I could feel you;
It made me smile,
But part of me knew I couldn't keep you.

You became my world.
I would talk to you hour on hour.
I grew to love you.
I wished the decision was out of my power.

See, I wanted to be your mum,
I wanted to keep you safe,
I wanted to hold you close,
I wanted to be the one you depended on.
For a second I thought I could do it.
I thought I could be the one,
I thought I was ready for it,
But in just two days you were gone.

You see, mummy loved you
With every part of her heart,
But Mummy knew that we were better off apart
Because Mummy couldn't give you the life that you deserved.

There isn't a single day
Where Mummy doesn't wish that she could reach up
And grab you back down to earth,
Place you safely back in Mummy's tummy,
And show you how much you're worth.

Smiling is hard without you.
I grieve for you every day,
But this was my decision,
I chose to let you fly away,

Fly away with the angels,
And look down on me from up above.
Understand my decision, baby,
Wasn't done through a lack of love.

I loved all that you were, with every part of me.
That will never change,
You will always be my first,
My baby unborn at 65 days.