To me it's just about doing things that won't give us a role but that will give us more of ourselves, if it makes any sense.

Nothing in moderation is a sure way to live a lukewarm life in my books. Life is about impermanence and having no boundaries to mantain an excess, even if you contain the limitlessness in a limit, is as deluded as desiring everything to be in moderation (same intensity). You can redose as much as you'd like, you won't ever feel as good as you did the first time. Comedowns are up ahead in a close distance, always.
Oscar Wilde's view is what i prefer because it is in harmony with nature which is chaotic.