Yeah man, that is very true. And the issue is that there are not enough women in Western Society that are willing to help a guy who does not seem much going for him but had huge potential. If you watch the relationship in an anime I love of Haruyuki and Kuroyukihime from Accel World, it shows a beautiful high school girl falling in love with a small chubby kid that did not have much going for him in the real world but see huge potential in him in the virtual world. I think its something your kids may like too XD