Hi there! How is it going?

So yesterday @anjkara wrote a post very interesting. I strongly recommend checking "How to avoid conversation. Introvert tips. Co-workers. Level 2." A really nice one!

Some of you know me. I really love to meet new people and talk with everybody. So when I find someone very closed and introvert for me it's kind of a problem. Because I need to moderate my personality. 

In today's post, I will share with you how to conquer an introvert person.

The Plump Cheeks Girl

Everything that I will say is just my opinion. If you are an introvert person, please share with me what you think about this post and help me to understand you species eheh

So the @anjkara post remembers how I conquered my ex-girlfriend. She is a true introvert person. Like the most introvert people, she is very intelligent. She knows about art, economic, travels, etc. Usually, we had great talks about everything. But In the beginning, I had some issues to understand her.

So what I did

The most important thing to an introvert person is "feel at home". The problem is. What meaning this? Can be a lot of things. For me, this means talk to a butch of new people every day share some jokes, etc. But not for an introvert.

So how to make an introvert person feel home:

1.Ask to join you for things that do not require talking.

Usually, they don't like to talk very much. Must of all if you are starting to know each other. You need to start using the "baby steps move". Some good example of what to do:

• Invite to watch a movie;
• Invite to play a game;
• Invite to art exposition;

Some of them will love to be a part of it and will start trusting in you.

2.NEVER, try to make fun of them, especially in front of someone else. 

If you do it, well... Nice to meet you. You are a dead person. They will close all the doors you already opened. And to solve this crap it's something really difficult to do it.

Never forget. They are shy people. Doing something like making fun of them is one of the worst things you can do.

3. Appreciate What she/he does.

The introvert people are very interesting. Many introverts do a lot of cool stuff. The Plump Cheeks Girl, my ex. love art and sometimes she told me GREAT stories about painters and his masterpieces.

Usually, they value small gestures. Like if you know or not how they take coffee. What mug they use. This type of things. 

4. Give seeds

Sometimes they run out of topic to talk. In this occasions, you have 2 options. 

• Don't say anything and let it flow;
• Give then "Seeds";

They are educated, people. They have a lot of dreams! You just need to know how to give than right Seed at the right moment. Use something that you know he/she loves.

Just a note. Don't force the talk. If you feel that the conversation doesn't flow it's ok. Try later eheh 

To end this post I will share with you a story. I don't know if I should but... Whatever.

Time to an embarrassing story

I have a friend, cool guy. He knows how to hack a lot of things. One time he hacks my phone (with my permission) to show me how it is done. After this, we played Uncharted 3 for PS3. A great game by the way.

Well at the night. I was already at home when I diced watch some "cool videos" (if you know what I mean) in a famous website coincidentally rhymes with Dtube and Youtube. Well, you get the point. 

I start to watch the video and in the first 6 sec I receive a message saying something like this:

"Hi, Rui! Nice one! she has a great ass. But I prefer this one (and send me a URL for another video)"

Like you can see. The introvert people are very interesting. Sometimes they know cool stuff. eheh

Conclusion

Never give up on an introvert person. They know a lot of thinks and they can be best friends you can get. They really value then relations. Be careful to not break the trust. If you do something like this will be very hard to recover the relation.

I hope you enjoy. Let me know what you think about my perspective about Introvert people. 

@anjkara what do you think? This can work? 

See You Later!