How Long Should We Hold in Making Love?

Is the sexual relationship lasting for 5 minutes? Or preferably 2 hours? Is long sex is a determinant of a man's virility? These questions have of course stopped in your mind, often even become the topic of conversation and copying material among your friends.

Yet according to John Wincze, professor of human behavior at Brown University, many misunderstandings, myths, assumptions, and expectations in the world of sex that is not based on facts and knowledge. Well, here are some facts about the duration of intercourse between humans.

Most men last 1 to 10 minutes

The duration of sex has been much studied. The researchers even conducted a survey and recorded the time of making love for men. The result, most sexual relations, ranging from the moment of penetration to orgasm, lasts between 1 to 10 minutes.

She also classifies men who have ejaculation before having sex as premature ejaculation. "There are some people who are too fast, even just touched it has been ejaculated immediately," said Wincze. It is actually a rare case and often requires treatment.

Warming is necessary

Research shows that women want more foreplay and afterplay. A recent survey of the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy on 5,655 Japanese women found that women expect more action before and after sex.

There is a biological reason for this. Women need more time to lubricate the vagina so they are ready to have sex. In addition women have different reactions to stimuli - unlike men who are aroused just by looking at it - the process of stimulation of women requires stages and time. Also note that the vagina enlarges after receiving stimulation, so if penetration is done before, can cause pain and discomfort.

Ejaculation is a neurobiological process

Although not classified as experiencing premature ejaculation, many men are less satisfied with the duration of love. So the story about drugs or therapy that can extend the time is not foreign to men. However, it should be known that ejaculation is a neurobiological process. Something associated with many conditions especially the physiological conditions.

Therefore, if you meet a therapist or sex consultant, maybe the advice will be similar: It is better to focus on enjoying sex than trying to do it for a long time.