role of self confidence-steemit

Many of us are familiar with the way of life. However, I try to get acquainted with the new ones, learn something and learn. There is a lot of questions from the interest of knowing that awakened questions And when we get older, we try to find out the answers to our own unknown questions. In this way, one story was about a career with a brother, during the story, brother began to tell me when sharing his personal life stories-
Listen, do a job from now on. Where to go in life, the thing that will bring a thing with carrying is own self-confidence.
I was a little surprised to hear that. Why did the brother say so about it for so many things? But slowly it becomes very clear to me too. Whenever the question of decision making in life comes forward, then it becomes important to be confident only, which will help us to get the top of success. And self-confidence can lead to success, just as self-reliance creates fear in mind and leads to failure. Self-confidence helps us in our unbelievable ways that are beyond our imagination.
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Know yourself

These two things have become the companions of our way of life and weirdness and inferiority. Let me explain that to many of us, this problem can not be seen by others or many of our close friends, or if we try to do something good, always try to drag him. When I can not do this thing, I feel almost trivial and think constantly and why I could not, why I could not.
One of the two common characteristics of our human character is that trying to do something good by motivating others to feel better or because of the same reason, think of them as trivial or small. But in the second case, the other side is misguided by people, but it is a mistake. The biggest foolishness to compare yourself with others is because the Creator did not create anyone in a way. Every person has some qualifications, skills that are different from each other. So it is best to know yourself and compare yourself with yourself. Those people on earth today are the ones who succeeded in understanding and recognizing what they deserve and what is good for them today.

Do not fall prey to the past

The human mind is usually compared to the park. If you take care of the mind and practice it like a garden every day, it will yield more of your expectations. But if you grow weeds in your mind then you will always avoid the peace of mind and its inner harmony.
In this case, let us note that every day people have toxic waste garbage in the fertile land of their mind; Feeling sad for the events of the past, mischief, anxiety, vengeance and self-created fears that constantly push us towards destruction.
Instead of good thinking for doing something good, we are imprisoned in the fence of the past. So it is more important to shake these issues to move ahead in life.

Avoid negative effects
He can not go too far.Every time we hear these words. And these are the things that stop life so many times. No work is difficult.There are some people around us who constantly interfere with our life and work. You can stay better in life only when those people do not take the importance of your work more seriously. Which will take you one step ahead of success? Because such people play a big role in reducing self-confidence. So do not always think of what to say, always find your good aspects.
Do not worry about your problem.Think about what is a positive factor in you. Once you find your own positive qualities, your self-confidence increases. But seeing an interesting point, it is seen that many of us are suffering from depression and at the same time why people are more likely to meet with negative thoughts.
It is not possible to find the light of hope in the words of these negative people, their criticism helped to lose hope of losing the frustration. There is no such thing that will always be successful in all things. But, accepting the failures, we pay more attention to our receipts & the will to work will be born in us. We have to know our own strengths and use them. So, don't think about what people will say, not to be frustrated with your own weaknesses, & focus on how to eliminate them, it is more important to us.

So do whatever you love to do
If the work you want to do is correct with your mind and conscience, that may be the companion of your life. In general, if you are to say that you may want to achieve the goal of life-whether material, mental, physical or spiritual, spend your life on the work that is your mind. But of course, your goal is to be confident with confidence, which will give you the taste of the end. Always give priority to your own desires, unwillingness, and opinions. But not everything that we do for profit but it is not.
There are many things that do not hurt or harm us, but then we love to do them because you will have different inspiration for the work that will be good, and the inspiration will be the confidence.

Believe in yourself

The secret of success is "Confidence" and the happiness you are looking for will only come based on the reflection of your precious purpose and your self-confidence. By doing this you will be able to learn new things that will help you live your life in the future and your positive image will keep you happy forever.

Try to understand one simple fact: How fortunate you are to survive in this world is a matter of luck. No matter how small you feel, you have a childhood, a teenager, and there are many moments in your life that no one else has, many achievements, skills that you hold, others do not have.
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Increase the scope of knowledge

If you do not see your goals, you can never achieve it. And gain a great deal of knowledge about the most important goal of moving forward in achieving goals. The more you increase your knowledge of the way of life, the more your confidence will increase.
Just how much work I did, how many opportunities I got and how much I earned - should not be restricted to work continuously to improve my own position and there is no alternative to acquiring knowledge.
You may not always be predictable, or all will always be in accordance with the plan, but whatever the outcome, your self-confidence can lead you to the top of the mountain of success