Letting go of what we don't get!

Letting go is not easy. Especially when we are desperate about the thing. We sometimes accept it verbally but deep inside we hold the desire.

This is not a healthy practice to live a happy life. You know, those unachieved desires are enough to make us feel unsuccessful, bad about our life. No amount of happiness is enough to be equal to those desires. It's better to let go for this reason, from our heart.

"If a man could have half his wishes, he would double his troubles." - Benjamin Franklin. I really believe these words. We never know what will be best for us. What we are desiring desperately right now, may not gonna make us happy in the end.

And what we want comes with different issues too. We never gonna know what we didn't face. This doesn't mean we can make a wish or want something. We definitely can and we should. But if we fail after trying heart and soul, we shouldn't let us hold us back. Rather let it go!

Not getting what we want sometimes is a blessing. You may find it too in your life. Remember who you like in your teenage and how life changes. You may not like the same person for a thousand reasons. This same thing actually happens in personal things also.

From financial things to personal development; don't hold anything if you fail to achieve it. Rather learn to let it go. Now, learning this is hard, really hard.

Especially when there are peer and social pressure. But accept it,
If you don't get it, you are not meant to it.
Don't make your life as well others uncomfortable trying for it.

And as I have said, if we hold the thing deep inside our hearts, it can't let us enjoy life in our own way. It will work like a thorn that will pinch us in every moment.

Things will come to us in its own way not how we want them. Life has its own plan for us. We better accept it step forward!