The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships: Tips for Setting and Maintaining Healthy Limits

Setting limits in relationships is tricky business. But with a little preparation and forethought, it's possible to avoid all the drama and heartache in your own personal life.


We've all been there. You and your partner love each other so much, but you've both started to feel as if there are no boundaries left between the two of you. Whether it's you or him/her, you start thinking of their needs before your own.

They want to be needed. They want to know when to take charge. They want to control you. It's tough, and it's normal. Everyone has a breaking point. If you're not careful, though, you can set yourself up for a lifetime of trouble.

Here are some tips to help you make healthy decisions about your relationships:

Have a Plan Ahead of Time

It's important to know where you stand with your significant other so you don't get blindsided. Talk things through with them before you begin your relationship, so they understand where you're coming from and you know exactly how much pressure you're willing to accept.

Set Ground Rules First

Whether you've been together for two months or 20 years, you have to come to an agreement on how you're going to handle every possible situation. It can be helpful to keep a list of rules to discuss during your first date or to discuss in advance before you have sex.

Communicate Early and Often

If you want to have a strong relationship, you need to communicate frequently and openly. This means talking about how you feel, but it also means listening to their feelings and concerns too.