Building Bridges; How Do We Make Valuable Connections in Life?
Hello, venerable Steemians!
Success finds its meaning in the boundaries of human society. Even if we throw away the secular outlook of society on success, the existence of such concept in an abstract sense requires the witness and observation of the people around us.
We partially owe our success to the opportunities that the world around us has to offer. The people we know have a significant contribution to the exposure of these opportunities. Building decent relationships with the right people can make all the difference when it comes to your career choices. Being in the right place at the right time has changed a lot of lives forever.
What you need to understand is that in order to have adequate opportunities, you need to be able to mark your place in society.
It doesn’t matter whether you are shy or scared of connecting with other people or feel like you are not important enough to approach them, for as long as you have a clear and vivid vision of what you want to achieve and the dream you want to realize, you will get over these destructive emotions and find your way around.
Every person you meet every day can be a launch platform for your dreams or a threat to your future. With your power of intellect and voice of reason, it is up to you to come to the conclusion as to which one of the above they are. Are they going to help you improve and grow beyond who you are now, or are they going to pull you down with their interminable gabble of negativity and pessimism?
Regardless of the type of person you encounter, you need to adapt several rules in order to make adequate connections in society, some of which are described below.
The first step towards making better connections is to attempt to reduce your isolation and attend more social events. For instance, if you are searching for a breakthrough in clothing and fashion, you need to attend festivals, seminars, and other events related to this profession. You need to be seen, and this kind of events are the perfect way for you to give a portrait of who you are and what you can do.
You must have heard a lot of people talk about first impressions, body language, and its impact in the mind of the person you interact with. The way you shake their hand, the way you make eye contact and hold yourself, and the way you respond to their greetings are all important when it comes to first impressions.
Every connection has a founding spot, that particular moment when everything is cemented forever. You need to make a powerful first impression, and you need to be battle-ready for everything that they might throw in your way.
If you are innately a shy and introverted person, a good trick might be using someone you know to introduce you around.
The idea of having a familiar face with you when you are getting acquainted with someone else is both comforting and encouraging. What do you know, maybe the influence of the person you know can help you plant the seed of a great foundation for your future!
Some people are fundamentally social and can handle themselves pretty well in public spaces. They can easily connect with other people and find a small corner in their hearts. The same cannot be said about introverted or shy people.
Nonetheless, making valuable connections is not a merit, but a necessity, if you want to achieve your dreams or at the very least, chart easier paths to realize them.
Have a Great Sunday!!! ============================ Important Note! I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, 40, 50, 80 upvotes and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem... ***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair. You all know the goal! We can reach: 50+ Upvotes each others! Attention!!! I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts. I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you. You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time. AND First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more. And if you are not on this list, please, after making your comment, write in that comment: Include my profile in the list, because I do or want to be part of all this with all of you! But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting votes or speculating because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity! Remember the rules. First leave your comment meaningful and then leave your message that you want to be included in this comment. Everyone is welcome and I hope this list grows exponentially because this will be a reflection of everyone's growth. I really do not want to be able to update the list of so many people that can be included in it. Let's go together towards the 50+ upvotes to recognize the efforts of those who dedicate their time so that we can become stronger and leave a legacy of growth in our lives and in the lives of others! ABOUT OUR LIST!!! WE NEED GROW THIS LIST! LET'S GO TOGETHER IN THIS COMMUNITY - RESTEEM! I'm not going to put this list in all the posts because I do not quite understand why, but some people did not like me to tag them even though this list is a list of acknowledgment and thanks from the people I've observed being the ones who write meaningful comments , are generous voting for each other and contribute more to this family we are building here. 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As opposed to being a lone wolf that constantly has to look out for himself, these companions will help you out greatly along the way.
@isabelpereira @nulifeiq @royer94
This is great content, Articles like this gets me In a great vibe . My legacy is what motivates me , I’m working for my last name not my first name ! Thanks for your time
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Thank you friend!
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Dear @chbartist
As pretty much always: great choice of topic. Got my attention from the very beginning and hold it until very end.
Knowing how to build valuable connection is a very desired skills and it does require understanding other people and having basic knowledge of how do they think, function etc.
Your publication is surely bringing us closer to this understanding, which Im grateful for.
I strongly believe that with current technology advancing fast, with AI being able to replace many jobs, there is one skill that cannot be replaced: people skill.
This one sentence is describing exactly why am I here on Steemit in the first place. Getting to know right people is my ticket to better future. And I hope more people will start having similar approach.
Great piece of work, seriously
Yours,
Piotr
Thanks to my friend @ crypto.piotr for sharing the information
good point on people skill
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A very good comment. @cryto.piotr
I like your way of answering, because you gave reasons about your supportin the post.
Thank you for reccomend to read this genious post, I find it very valuable to understand more about doing connections
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Excellent content, human relations is the most important of our lives, no one can live without relating to someone, I liked your writing @chbartist and thanks to @crypto.piotr for recommending this reading, success.
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@chbartist community increase our communication habit and we know how much it is important for our success. Because when you remove your shyness then you will see your , what is actually you are ? And that is very important to forward any step of life. Our community learns us more , a cooperative help , care to each other and many more . And these skills basically create our future. We have to sit with them and try to gain lots of inspiration.
@ankitjnv
Hi @ankitjnv , I 'm wrote the same that a write in response to @royer94. This community will be big, strong and prosperous. I know exactly what I'm doing. Just what we need to do is increase the list and when the time comes right I will write directly what steps we take to grow more, but for the time being I am sharing lived experiences without the usual intention of being the owner of the truth but I know that if I I've walked a path on my journey and it was successful so something taught and shared here will serve someone to start certain attitudes and regardless of what they do I'm sure everyone's life here can be better. It's enough that you all believe in yourself because I already believe in all of you and I observe who has applied the teachings that I have written in my more than 200 posts and I'm sure that at some point their lives are already better. You will not be alone while I can be here!
Very nice, very good!
To achieve success we need to connect with many people. And the more people we join, the more we will be able to acquire knowledge from them.
Happy Sunday friend
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Great Sunday for you too friend!
Today I built a bridge that will surely expand my horizon and will test my capacity for new challenges. A great project awaits me and I am ready to open new roads and create more connections. In the end with connections and bridges between these is that a community is built. A big hug.
Hi @royer94, This community will be big, strong and prosperous. I know exactly what I'm doing. Just what we need to do is increase the list and when the time comes right I will write directly what steps we take to grow more, but for the time being I am sharing lived experiences without the usual intention of being the owner of the truth but I know that if I I've walked a path on my journey and it was successful so something taught and shared here will serve someone to start certain attitudes and regardless of what they do I'm sure everyone's life here can be better. It's enough that you all believe in yourself because I already believe in all of you and I observe who has applied the teachings that I have written in my more than 200 posts and I'm sure that at some point their lives are already better. You will not be alone while I can be here!
Regards
Howdy!
I've upvoted your post
it's just a small upvote, but I hope it will serve to help you and the steem community to grow ;)
Thank You for the great article and motivation
Thanks, @crypto.piotr for the reminder but i'm already the part of this community. :)
Regards,
Dayyan Khan
Thanks for dropping by @khan.dayyanz
I'm so glad that I had a chance to get to know you lately. You're so very responsive and supportive. LOVE IT :)
Yours
Piotr
This is a great topic, we can decide which people are those that help us reach our destiny, in my systems engineering career, this is a powerful weapon, interpersonal relationships, it is a way of studying the world and each system in general When you go out on the street to do a study, the first thing that must be taken into account is the human approach, that's why natural systems are so complex, there are connections that we build with our work, behaviors and efforts, but there are other types of connections that is the one that brings break to your life and that is given by God, I call them "divine connections", you do not look for them, they come to you in the right and perfect moment, it is like the legend of the red thread of destiny , those people who are connected by destination to accomplish an impact task. On my way, God has put that kind of connection that has been a great blessing.
What an excellent comment, it can be a powerful weapon, only we can decide whether to use them or not.
The connections that we build with our work and effort, it is true, sastifactorio. Greetings
As usually I reply to your post in Portuguese:
O networking é uma ferramenta de crescimento profissional em certas profissões e crucial, por exemplo naquelas em que se vive da exposição pública, como artistas ou políticos de carreira. Já noutras não será tão essencial mas é sempre uma mais-valia.
No entanto estamos a construir uma sociedade em que ser uma montra ambulante é considerado válido e um exemplo é isso é mau. Nem tudo e todas as pessoas nos servem para alcançar os objectivos e realizar uma vida harmoniosa. Só nos servem bem as pontes que nos levam a lugares onde seremos felizes...bom domingo. :D