Danielle, it's true that life here in the States will go on as usual, and you will miss important events in your friends' and family's lives. And it's probably true that it will tug on your heart to see photos of weddings, graduations, other milestone events that your stateside loved ones are experiencing. I'm sure you will weather those tugs, because as you say, you will be forging ahead with your own life, creating experiences that are equally if differently meaningful to you. But most of all, I want to assure you that you will NOT lose your place in our lives....at least, not your place in the lives of those who consider you important and necessary in their lives (like moi :-) I know it feels weird to think of being in a situation where you're not being your usual supportive self, but think of this: you will be supporting the people of Zambia, who need it desperately. The rest of us will manage just fine. We will find other means of support, and cheer you on as we free you up to experience an opportunity for which you've worked very hard to obtain. So, go with an open heart, an open mind, and know that we are so happy for you and Brett to be able to have this experience together. We all eagerly await reports of your experience, and look forward to your return so we can share them with you in person. xoxox