@jpinka you were smart to recognize that the guy you met was some one who would have drained all your energy from you. Whenever someone shows a repeated pattern, it is usually a good indication that he/she has a problem with keeping a relationship going. The old saying, "where there's smoke, there's fire" is so true here. Usually any questionable sign is an alert to you that there might be something lacking in this individual. Good job in recognizing that it is time to cut ties! Thank-you for you comment. Good luck in the future!