Crazymumzysa, a very well written article that came from your own experiences and heart with excellent advise to those who have suffered. Forgiveness and moving forward may take time but it is the first step in healing and being able to live with more freedom & happiness. I think this is one of my favorite posts because it is so real and helpful and true. Beautiful words from a beautiful and forgiving person. I am very happy for you.......Cabbagepatch.