When it comes to finding a partner and money, I find that it's not as much about how much they are currently making as it is how much they desire to make. In my eyes, I want to see that there is an abundance mindset. Does she believe that she deserves great things in life? Does she desire an above average life? If my wife only wanted mediocrity and average, then I can tell you that I wouldn't be with her. I've got HUGE goals and dreams that I fully plan to accomplish and she has to be onboard with that or else she would sabotage us as a couple to not achieve those.