Chapter 4: getting comfortable.

There is little about comfort in the man's book of practice, but it doesn't make sense.

Comfort is not important. On the contrary, comfort is the first step in a relationship. In this chapter, we will elaborate.

The topic of comfort is a topic that gives you some practice as a reference.

Why build comfort?

First, building comfort has the following benefits:

1. You have an emotional foundation. It's not weird to do anything like that. So your passion isn't a one-night stand, yes?

Leave some warm memories.

After your passion, you won't feel guilty.

Having a sense of comfort is good for long-term relationships. Our purpose is to improve.

It's not just for the bubble. We are for a better life, so I suggest you focus on it.

It's in the comfort zone.

Secondly, the comfort level is very important in the bubble learning stage.

If you're not comfortable with a person, such as a zhang ziyi, it's attractive, but you are.

It's not comfortable, you must still, avoid her, a word, comfort is everything, shu.

Adaptability is also the most important part of interpersonal communication.

Comfort makes us more harmonious and interesting with friends, if you are with a friend, or.

Your family, or your girlfriend has no comfort, and your relationship is in danger.

Do comfort, do it, you build relationships, come out to eat and drink, come out to play.

Or playing basketball, or women, shopping together, it is very interesting, sex is just a shu.

It's natural to build a sense of fitness, or a little bit of cleverness. It's better not to have comfort.

To tempt, that would be a nuisance. There is also a good sense of comfort, as a man,

High value performance if you only do attraction, temptation, very easy to flow like vulgar realm. We're here to find love.

It's about finding happiness, not just about sex.

1. How to foster comfort?

First of all, think about who makes you uncomfortable.

Napoleon, do you feel comfortable?
What about the first emperor of qin? Xiang yu, han xin and so on.

Jet li? Bruce lee? It's all uncomfortable.

They are so capable and proud that they always make people feel uncomfortable and the most fundamental is their products.

Quality, their quality makes us uncomfortable.

Therefore, the cultivation of comfort begins with the cultivation of quality.

1. Maturity: Chen daoming, sun honglei, pu cunxin, Jackie chan, etc.

2, calm and steady

1. Humor: wei xiaobao, zhao benshan, there are some funny people to find out for themselves.

1. Personality (a man has a frame, or we say confidence)

When others compliment us on some of our inconspicuous strengths, or specify our strengths, we will.

Feel very happy in the heart, very comfortable, feel this person is good, very careful, will produce one to him.

Affection silk. Similarly, when we are successful in establishing attraction, we can also praise the details of mm in time.

Don't be the obvious advantage of appearance, because it seems so ordinary, it is possible for her.

You've heard too much, and it doesn't show your character. When we DHV, we should also boast.

Award them, set your heart.

Here, there is a mistake, must remind everybody, the comfortable feeling builds too much easily falls into the friendship area...

Therefore, attraction and temptation must also be done. It's like a barbecue, the fire is too strong, the meat is raw; The fire

After the soft, the roasted meat is dry without the meat flavor, the comfort of the establishment, must grasp a degree.

So that's the theoretical part of how we build comfort. Here's a couple of posts from BBS.

Share a common practice of building comfort.

1. The practice of obtaining comfort.

1. First of all, I would like to tell you about a common practice, which is applicable to one when you are chatting with MM.

You have a lot of value for this point, follow the following conventions:

Man: I'm hot. Do you want to buy it?

MM: then you make a price, let me see.

Man: well, let me see. I have two hands. One hand is 5.

A finger, those two hands are one, two, three, four... Well, (looking at the sky, as if trying to think,

All of a sudden, it's like a sudden aha! It's 10 fingers. Then take a XX (MM name) for a change, more.

No more. (and then she looks at her with a bad smile on her face.)

MM: ah? I'm worth ten fingers?

Man: yeah, why? I don't have ten fingers?

MM: not enough, not enough.

Man: haven't you heard of ten fingers? Ten fingers is a heart, you say worth it? (a

It's a good opportunity to move in and out.

This custom requires that the expression be rich, hand, facial expression, the language should cooperate in place, can achieve the effect.

"Be careful," she said as she walked across the street. She looked at me and wondered, "how?

Yao? What am I doing?

"There's an ant, don't trip you up... Relieve the boredom of the road.

I saw a shooting star last night, very beautiful. I made a wish for it! (pause a paragraph

Time or wait for her to ask you) I say to the meteor: "hope XXX (her name) becomes beautiful dot" result I.

It was discovered that the meteor had flown back! When you're not saying it, say it. Absolutely let MM to your pink fist.

I said, you know, something amazing happened this morning.

She'll ask you.

Ignoring him, he continued: in the morning, while brushing my teeth, I read a mantra in the mirror, "mirror, mirror! who

The most handsome guy in the world! Amazing things happen, the mirror is really what I look like!

Be arrogant and funny.

M: what would you do if a handsome gentleman greeted you?

She: I will give him two eyes discharge to say hello!

Male: hi! Hello!

A little interaction requires a girl who is comfortable, otherwise the person might not respond.

M: do you believe in destiny?

She: no talking

Man: you seem to believe it.

She: why

Man: it's not a leak.

Using MM's curiosity, she may keep asking you to open up the topic.

A lot of times what you do or say, she says you really hate it. Then you can.

That's the convention.

M: do you know the difference between Chinese girls and foreign girls?

MM: I don't know! (or whatever it is)

M: the difference is in the expression of love, the foreign girl will say: I love you! And the Chinese girl would say,

You are a pain in the neck! Use caution in the attraction stage.

1. Humorous flirting jokes can be told to MM at the appropriate time.

Girl sajiao says husband: "I toothache!" The boy then kissed the girl and asked, "does it still hurt?" The girl

Say: "not painful!"

Later the girl said, "honey, I have a pain in my neck!" The boy kissed the girl's neck again and asked:

"Does it still hurt? The girl is very happy to say: "not painful!"

Next to an old lady standing to see a long time can not help, stepped forward to ask the young man to say: "the young man you true.

God, can you cure hemorrhoids?" A flirtatious joke in which the connotation is understood.

1. When you and MM go to shopping or pay for the meal after dinner.

Say to MM: "give you to guess a thing, hand give me."

Then he took her hand and held it up, pointing at one hand, and said, "this is a river, and the river is wide.

There are no vehicles or Bridges to go through.

"There is a boy on this side of the river, and the other side of the river is a girl. The boy can't swim.

Can you reach the girl on the other side of the river?

Then, anyway, she said no answer. Then, holding her hand, she said, "we.

Think while you walk. Then take her hand away so you can hold her hand. If she keeps chasing.

Ask, you can never tell her, or tell her: "actually the boy did not want to see that girl, only.

Want to hold her hand!" This is a common practice, and it's good to use! (this is repeated in the next chapter, but.

It basically covers both the comfort and Kino stages