How to get rid of people's words

How to get rid of people's words

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Most people face a lot of criticism, and talk others bad, which increases their thinking, and anxiety, which leads the person to restrict himself to the words of people, and the exhaustion of his mind, and psychological, and increase the sense of discomfort, so it is necessary to know ways to get rid of people's words; Those negative effects, and this is what we will teach you in this article.

How to get rid of people's words

Follow the rule of the third

This rule is that every person has two-thirds, one-third, one-third, one-third neutral. There must be people against you.

Everything others think about you is beyond your control

A person can not control others' opinions on him other than his behavior, or his actions to get the reaction he wants, such as trying to laugh at things that do not seem funny to him.

Stay away from excessive thinking

This is by recognizing that you are not the center of the universe, nor the most important in this world, so no one cares about you because it is difficult to judge everyone we meet, and it is difficult to analyze their personality, their shortcomings, and their shortcomings.

Put things in perspective

By looking at things from the perspective of the right and the positive, and get rid of the ideas of others, avoid exaggeration in matters that are not worth, and give the issues some time; to facilitate their understanding, and resolve.

Other tips to get rid of people's words

• Let people talk about what they want, avoid engaging in discussions with them, ignore what they say, and if they repeat the same talk, it is advisable to try to change the subject by asking a question outside the subject.
  

• Develop a program of work and duties that you will do; to increase the ability to correct self-errors, and bear the words of others.

• Stay away from sitting with passive people.

• Realizing that people who try to appear in front of them ideally have many flaws, and may be more than your faults.

• Read the stories of other people, who have succeeded despite others' criticisms and speeches, such as Addison.

• Force your style, your character in life; it reduces people's talk towards you.

• Think about 5 minutes a day before going to sleep and do what you do to correct your mistakes and reduce the vulnerability of others.

• Avoid talking too much, and avoid sitting with them alone.

• Knowing that each person has his own way of thinking, a certain point of view, then confronting them by telling them that they have a different perspective, which will drive them to silence.
  

By Ala Abiyat