What Are The Three Hardest Things To Say?

in #life7 years ago (edited)

I came across a random article and it talks about "The Three Hardest Things to Say" which I think is pretty interesting!

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"The three hardest things to say are I love you, I'm sorry, and Help me?"

I believe there are things that is really hard for someone to say and it's different to everyone. I have no problem to say "I love you" when it comes to relationship. Like me saying "I love you" to my bf everyday and so does he! But it's quite hard for me to say this to my parents. Maybe it's just for my family? My parents don't used to say I love you with us too but it doesn't mean we don't love each other right? My parents are more on a traditional culture, especially my dad but now he is getting better 😝 So i guess it's too shy for him to say I Love You to us or even to my mum HAHA. He did tell us he loves us when he was drunk wtf

My dad used to be very fierce and strict to us when we were young and it's still the same now thou but slightly better now anyway. Our relationship are getting close nowadays as I was always trying to express, to tell him and my mum that I love them by writing them letters or cards sometimes. I know they were super happy inside.

I have no problem saying I love you to my bf but it doesn't apply to "I'm sorry"! HAHAHA! To be honest, I'm very stubborn and I have a big ego. Whenever we had an argument I will never admit that I'm wrong or to be the who apologise first. Sometimes bf will also try to fight with me but he will end up surrendering.

Wait, you don't get me wrong. I'm not rude thou. I will still say sorry to others if I did anything wrong, no matter big or small. It's just that for Bf, it's a different story I guess lolll.

Besides, I can't agree more about "Help me!" is one of the hardest thing to say! At least to me :( I'm very sensitive and I care about how other think about me. It makes me feel that people will think I'm stupid or a lousy and I don't know what to do even a small thing when I ask for help. What do I do when I face difficulties? I will try to settle it myself... even if it makes me angry lolll. What if in the end I still can't solve it ? No choice, I have to ask somebody and that somebody will have to be my closest friend or family members but at least I tried! Another thing is that I'm very afraid people might think I'm very annoying :( That's why if it's not a big deal I will try not to disturb anyone...

After all, I think some people should add "Thank you" in their "hardest things to say" list. I don't know if they are lazy to say it out, not bothering to say it out or they didn't learn anything about this word while they are in school :|. I don't mind helping people and I don't ask for a return but at least, I think I deserve a "Thank you"? Especially to those who will only remember you when they need your help and if you help them, they take it as granted. No thank you, no nothing but when you ask them for help, they will tell you "I'm sorry." See, they can say "I'm sorry" but not "Thank you". #mindfuck.. Saying thank you to someone is like showing your appreciation to them, their help or even services which I think is a must-say-thing.

So, what are the hardest things for you to say...?

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