"There has been no booze, no sexy parties, no drugs and saddest of all, no women."

So, no problems! Those are like deadly to a man's productivity and long term happiness. Never had alcohol, NEVER been on drugs and never been with someone else than my wife. No women is a great thing, you need just ONE and you don't need the others at all! Think of the time you lost (or keep loosing) to all those pointless things, those parties, those flirting, searching for people on social media, constantly messaging, socialising etc. You need time for yourself and you need it now! You need a break even from your beloved one's, be it an hour a day or a day in a week, you need to be all alone, without anything like booze and no social media too. That will make you bored and that's what you are going for! A bored mind is capable of having breakthroughs. When we constantly bombard ourself with things to do, we don't let out mind wander freely in the realms of imagination. Boredom is a cure to the modern worlds biggest illness.

Go out and get bored! You'll be amazed how much it will effect your life.