Hmmm, I guess ghosting really means that you never talk to them again... I'm sure it comes from Tinder when you have fun chats, go on a date, have a great time.... then silence, forever. Maybe we need a whole different term for people who only pop up when they need something... ? Ghostgrabs?

Oh for sure getting busy is totally different... but with your 10 month friends, how many messages would they ignore before you'd feel ghosted? At some point you'd stop trying I guess...

Hahaha, dang it... from now on I only accept compliments that are FACTS:
"AussieNinja, you are 5'8"",
"AussieNinja, I once grinned from a comment you made. That was good."