Each of us deserves to be happy. So why are some happy and others not? It seems to be a very banal question, but how many people ask it to themselves? There are so many men and women who dream of love and family life, imagining a warm, cozy home, the smell of a delicious dinner and the knowledge that they are waiting for you at home.

Single people understand better than anyone that happiness is not in money.

In order to find love and true happiness, you must at least at the outset assume that this is possible. We are so accustomed to loneliness and sadness that we no longer believe that we will meet the person who would appreciate us, loved with all the flaws, and then, like in a fairy tale: “They lived happily ever after, and they had many children who grew up good and honest people. " Real happiness is not, it must be achieved in a difficult and difficult way without exchanging for beautiful distractions. Once a friend of mine was with a man. She asked me what to do. She did not know whether she needed this relationship or not. I told her that they had better break up. If the person himself does not know whether he needs a relationship with another person or not, he does not love him. As long as you are not with those who are created for you, you lose time and the opportunity to get acquainted with those for whom you are created.

If you have been alone for a long time and your life is just the work and the cold walls of your home - it's time to change something. Remember, happiness never comes by itself. For him to fight. Sitting at home by the TV or computer you are unlikely to meet someone.

You are a wonderful person who deserves love and happiness.

We memorize and learn. And now every time when you go out you take a deep breath and repeat to yourself: I will find my happiness.

If you are gloomy, not smiling with your head down, it is unlikely that something will work out. This is the same as the first flight of a bird. Is it possible to fly a bird if it does not spread its wings in advance? Spread your “wings” and fly towards your happiness. Enjoy life, smile and enjoy everything that pleases your soul: a beautiful sun that pleasantly warms your skin, a dear boy who eats ice cream funny on the street, etc. When have you recently looked at the sky? And it would be worth more often! After all, it is beautiful, just like you, but you do not know about it, because you are not looking at it. Also in life, you don’t look at anyone; you go in your own world, thinking about something personal, you don’t notice passersby, and in general you don’t notice much! Who then can notice you? Raise your head higher, see how many nice people around here can be that sweet girl who has been working with you at the same company for two years and is your destiny? Give a chance to a person who feels sympathy for you, do not judge by first glance. You can always attach a label, but to know a person who is really accessible to a few people. Sometimes even a seemingly happy person can be very unhappy, and his smile is an ordinary mask, behind which lies a tender and vulnerable little man.

Fear of change and strangers leads to loneliness.

Admit to yourself: how many times has fear stopped you? Fear of change, fear of failure or failure, fear of pain? What is most funny, we are very afraid that someone will hurt us very much, and because of this, very often we do not allow a person to become closer. As a result, you yourself hurt yourself, we decide everything for everyone, that it would be better because nothing would work out anyway, it’s better now than later. Give happiness a chance! Kill the fear. If you are afraid of everything, you will not know anything! You need to try and fight to be happy! Did you like the girl at the bus stop? - Get to know! Fearfully? - forget either now or never! Go and meet! Refuses, then this is not what you need. Meet the next girl who hooks your heart. Perhaps it is she who will be for you the most beloved and only, and if you give up before they are strengthened from the efforts to hold on, you will get only what you had enough for, and not what you dreamed of.

In order to get what we don't have, we need to do something that we have never done.

True happiness is hard to find, but if you find it, it will never go away from you anywhere.

Sometimes in order to become happy you have to give up a lot. Happiness is achieved by not only pleasure. In order to get something truly valuable and great you need to accomplish and act valuable and dignified. For happiness you need to fight. Sometimes the most powerful struggle takes place within us, between the concepts I can and want.

What if I ruin everything?

No matter how it sounds funny, sometimes a person is better off thinking less. We are constantly engaged in self-digging. Remember that in the right actions, we very often doubt, but we make mistakes with complete confidence.

Life as the jackpot is the one who tries, tries, tries and tries again, and not the one who sits on the couch and watches TV. So change yourself, change your life. You are the master of your life, not the other way around. You are your own master! What do you want and do it! What you want and get it. You will always have time to live tomorrow, live today, stop dreaming. Do not wait for someone to come and make you happy! Make yourself happy! And as soon as you find true love, and with it happiness - appreciate and value it, love and be loved. If you believe in yourself - the whole world will believe!