hehehe...it must be a rainy day in paradise.

Well, relationships are there own special hell distinct from all other endeavors in life--if we're talking romantic relationships. In that sense, most people are fragile although there are a few who are not... they are generally psychopaths.
Watch the Wilber video I recently posted as he really shines on this issue.
It's always a good idea to leave the shovel in the shed on first dates though:D
One of the best reads about the childhood human condition is I'm Okay/You're Okay...It's not our fault! Of course, I'm a Gnostic so I have unique views on our flawed design but that's another post.
You're weird​? I did not notice:D