U never stop to amaze me,this is well written out of your heart...honestly...i had to read it twice,here is my little contribution,am not a lady and i dont really know how ladies think but i know that even men are shy and like to keep their problems to themselves....even though ladies cant keep secrets,its still difficult for them to relate problems of their life to other people but why they should is...atleast,there would be a change after they speak out but i dont think its really easy.....u really tried in the construction of this post..weldone👍