What it might feel like to be Raped

Recently I watched a bollywood movie MoM.

What this movie made me realize is that knowing is one thing, understanding is another and feeling is a completely different phenomenon.

I dont know why we as human beings can not feel how it feels to be another human being unless or until we go through the same experience. Thats the only way I guess. I never even gave a thought about how it feels to be raped , much less feel it until I saw this movie.

Oh No, we can never feel how it feels to be Raped , to be so deeply humiliated that the soul shivers. Maybe if our reproductive organ is chopped off or a rod is shoved up our asses , we will feel something close to that disgusting feeling.

We can never ever feel that inhumane feeling, when one starts to hate her own being, being a victim. And that disgusting feeling never ever leaves. It is so difficult to heal mentally and emotionally. One such act and that soul is damned for ages. I can tell because I have felt a similar feeling though my experience was different.

Its not like only Girls are the victims. There are so many children that are victimised. A Victim has no Gender. A victim is a human and after such a grotesque act , we have destroyed the being.

Believe me the acid burns , scars and bruises on the flesh dont hurt as much as the soul that we have destroyed, hurts.

And If we try to search for the root cause, I guess it is that the Rapist's/Criminal's mind, the origin, is equally victimised that he/she commits such an inhumane act on the victim. And this is all because of how we were grown up. This society always tells us to repress what is so Natural. Sex was meant to be a Sacred EXperience but we have degraded it to such an extent that it is almost a crime now.

I just pray to God, we start to evolve and start feeling another human, another being, be it an animal or a plant, without having to go through their experiences.

Please go watch this movie and just somehow try to feel what a human goes through after such an experience