My Real Enemy
Yes I am looking for my real enemy.
But Why ?
Answer is very simple yet difficult to explain. Just yesterday when i was trying to sleep (a routine for Sunday), suddenly a beep from my mobile awake me. The bad luck was I decided to check the message. Yes now I can say it was my bad luck that I decided to check the message at place of sleeping peacefully.
Message was long enough and I find it unnecessary to paste here … .. in short message was to get donation for girl’s education. Unnecessary to say the first attempt was trying to delete as soon as possible.
Just for a moment i though why I should donate for a cause which is not even to provide equal opportunities, irrespective of gender ?
Soon I get the answer. And answer was YES. Yes I should donate for the education of a specific gender.
Many (feminist) will be happy from this statement, but as soon as they will read next line a big disappointment waiting for them.
My view is I should donate for the education of a specific gender, when the gender is MALE.
Surprised ?
Yes dear you understand right. I am talking about donation for boy’s education at place of girl’s education.
Happy ?
No ?
Let me explain why I should donate for MALE kid’s education. Here in India we have a specific mindset as well as social arrangements. See this :
Here men is projected as oppressor and women as victim,but today when I visit market, I am not talking about big cities, I am talking about small cities or town, what i can see is men wear more clothes then women.
How the size of cloth can be a measure of society ?
Yes. It can be specially if I am the same men as projected by almost everyone, How i can allow Ms. X to cross the limit.
At-least I am not able to understand how this double slandered working within me, one side I have all control on Ms. X and same time I can’t stop her wearing or walking almost or half nude.
Yes someone can say that is what I like to see her, but I find it extreme to say i wanted to see my daughter or sister nude or half nude. If don’t believe just try to say something to Mr. Y’s sister of daughter, depending on the content it will be difficult to come back home in one peace. Yes this is common here in India, we (excluding me) are ready to protect our sister and mother or any lady at any cost.
Here society think its men who provide food and other things for family. Yes anyone can object, before that please read this :
Please show me one case where court said providing is duty of women and men can sit at home. But I am familiar with a men who is disable and his wife is healthy, till court sent him jail because he was not able to earn for her maintenance.
Please introduce me one lady (well educated and earning) who married with unemployed men. Reverse I can show as many as anyone ask.
Please show me one rich men, who was rejected because of his drinking habits. But I can show many rich men who drink heavy still married. Just because here parents first see the source of income then other things.
Please introduce me a lady whose solo target is to do something. Yes I know there are few but not more the a handful. Most of ladies don’t have any other target then study and marry a rich or earning person.
Please introduce me a lady who think her father is a bad men just like her husband. Even I know a lady who claim one out of three men is rapist, but her 2 brother and father are saint (my view is out of 3, 1 should be rapist, but she dont agree).
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Yes my dear we are living in a society where almost every responsibility is loaded on men, even if the family has dispute the responsibility lie with men only. Still we wanted to ignore men’s education and promote women’s education ?
No I don’t support this, I don’t oppose girl’s education but I find boy’s education more important and more useful, thats why I can donate for boy’s education but deny for girl’s education. In-fact I am donating for a kid’s education from past many years, without worrying about the gender of kid, but now onward I can do it with proper logic and with more strength.
And if I fail to do so just because it is not fair for other gender (female), I will do injustice with MALE and i will be biggest enemy of my own gender.
Time to think about girl’s education is over, we need to focus on boy’s education, specially the education which can help them come out of slavery. Boy need freedom and we can do this together.