Indeed, a "jumpy" post, not easy to follow but this is how our mind works, isn't it? :) 28 here and I can relate with the feeling but I name it differently. I know my limits now and I know others have limits too. So I dream only achievable things:) I don't think this makes me cynical, just realistic and well adapted. And by the way, you started the article talking about "men". Hope is applicable to women too (I'm not good at jokes, this was intended to be one)