"The tongue of man is small, but how many lives he broke"-Omar khayyam. Gifts, that are better not to leave!
I am talking about those "gifts" that you are get from people at the time of the discussion.
Often when communicating with other people, as well as arriving in a strong negative emotional state like anger, envy, resentment, and so on. WE RECEIVE FROM THEM "GIFTS" IN THE VARIETY OF VARIOUS JUDGMENTS ABOUT US, for example about our personality, about our possibilities, about our appearance, and so far. Familiar?
All gifts, all those negative words that you hear and receive from people are -
NEGATIVE GIFTS.
These negative gifts bring negative influence and negative energy to your aura, or even worse, negative affect on our health.
We fall under someone else's INTROJECTION .
INTROJECTION- literal translation- "Introjection (German: Introjektion) is a psychoanalytical term with a variety of meanings. Generally, it is regarded as the process where the subject replicates in himself behaviors, attributes or other fragments of the surrounding world, especially of other subjects. Cognate concepts are identification, incorporation,[1] and internalization. To use a simple example, a person who picks up traits from their friends (e.g., a person who begins frequently exclaiming "Ridiculous!" as a result of hearing a friend of theirs repeatedly doing the same) is introjecting".
After receiving such a "gift", we begin to feel bad, can not get settled for work, do not find a partner (such feelings that all the "normal" ones are "dismantled"), or we do not live as we would like (nothing works out).
Sometimes it happens so we do not even notice it, in a friendly conversation. For example, your friend says that you need to change something in your life to change it for the better. It is likely that this question will be addressed to himself.
WHAT TO DO, HOW DO NOT ACCEPT OR RETAIN ANY SUCH GIFTS?
All pretty simple, it all depends on us and our way of thinking - the power of thought!
I think each of us can recall the situation that happened to him. Remember / present yourself this situation when you are offended - gave a special gift and you carry this belief with you.
Concentrate on the inner sensations and images, present this person who gave you this perfection.
Mentally get a gift out of yourself and DROP IT FROM YOURSELF !!!!
When you throw this gift away, presenting the person who gave it to you, say to yourself:
"I'm forgive you, but I do not accept the gift."
Fill the space with positive energy, SMILE and breathe with a sense of relief, because the gift no longer exists. And put a positive picture on your free space - what you want and what you desire for yourself.
I wish you all a good day, good mood, and more positive,
Alice
