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RE: Goodbye ghosters! How to boost your self-esteem in less than an hour
The advice is ghost a ghoster? Fighting spookies with spookies :D
Really nice read and good post to start off with, good luck!
The advice is ghost a ghoster? Fighting spookies with spookies :D
Really nice read and good post to start off with, good luck!
Haha, yes :D!! Now that you are saying it, that's probably the bottom line.
I have to admit to being a ghoster. I distance myself personally when I know distance is coming physically. Self preservation over selfish meanness I think/hope!
So, you start to distance yourself when you think the other one might not like you as much? Did I get that right?
I was thinking in terms of family and friends. When they have planned to move, or I have, the ghost mechanism kicks in in preparation of being in their lives less, i think?!
Uhmm, that's an interesting one! I'm in favour of talking to each other, no matter what ;-). It really depends on the situation. Sometimes you even feel closer to people the further away they are. Or maybe (if the ghosting mechanism kicks in) you just didn't have much to say to each other anymore anyway.
Talking and keeping in touch is needed for sure. When you do make the distance real, new friends come in and the ghosting is just natural.
I'm meeting some school friends tomorrow for the first time in over a year but hopefully the days and years spent together will 'unghost' us all in minutes! :)
That would be ideal :)! Fingers crossed it goes well.
Thank you!