I don't have kids but I often feel like wherever I live I end up taking the role of mother and father, cleaning doing DIY cooking managing the bills, that most of my flat mates or partners can't manage. I often start to pop and I might get mad or just completely withdraw. Sometime I like doing everything (control freak) and sometime I like to rebel and sack it all off... Starting to find more of a balance these days
I know exactly how you feel! I was a serious control freak even before becoming a parent.
Parent or no, I appreciate what Karin has to say about finding that balance.