I hear you pal. It can all get a little overwhelming sometimes. Just went through 2 1/2 years with Katie's mom. It's not easy being a caregiver and having to live your own life as well. You're making it work for you though, kid.
by the way - I loved the, "Can you believe how lazy we improvisers were by working full time jobs and then going to rehearsals and then doing shows, sometimes 8-10 shows a week. So damn lazy am I right?" I have been guilty of calling myself a "lazy improviser". Never thought of it that way.