Yes! All countries have laws that regulate gender-based norms and behavior. The problem is that its implementation is not optimal. Victims and even courts sometimes act discriminatory when handling cases of gender-based violence. Giving legal consequences to a husband who cannot be proven as a suspect, and on the other hand, a wife deliberately dramatizes her husband's violence with sadness and sobs. and, the court welcomed the drama without any real evidence of causation.
I agree with you, yes! All regulations are important and do not favor one type to guarantee rights, provide protection and punishment for perpetrators of gender-based violence.
Sometimes a group of people ask, why does the state interfere so much in someone's household affairs? Does the state not respect and uphold religious laws or customary laws which are very strong in every region? i am sorry! This is the case in my country, Indonesia is predominantly Muslim. Many Muslims in a number of areas uphold religious values, their teachings are very strong about law, the rights and obligations of a wife to obey her husband, and vice versa.
Yes! Islam and perhaps all other faiths strictly prohibit violence and there are punishments for such behavior. I am not talking about violence such as beatings and insults because these behaviors should be punished on the basis of real evidence.
..But, what are the advantages of a man when he has the status of husband and father of his daughter? Are husbands no longer considered the head of the household or king who is responsible for meeting all their family's needs? Have gender regulations robbed husbands of their rights to protect their wives? Positioning husbands as creatures without feelings of jealousy? when a husband forbids his wife from leaving the house to work or does he like his wife as a real housewife..
Sometimes I wonder whether the state has the right to be involved in all social behavior in a person's domestic life, even intervening in small things or misunderstandings between husband and wife as gender-based violence.
There are cases of gender-based violence causing divorce due to excessive state regulatory intervention. The father had to be separated from his daughter. That is very unfortunate because it will have a bad effect on a child's mental and behavior, can the state be responsible for that?
Your writing and descriptions are very interesting to read, I was very emotional responding to your explanations and great responses in cases I & II part III. It really also motivated me to find out more about the ins and outs of gender-based violence.
Thank you for sharing, good luck Mr @kouba01
Thank you @nishadi89