This is awesome, lol. I think most men use it, coming from a forceful approach, at least in my experience. It grosses me out when they say they wanna 'stick it in my pussy'... being a compassionate empathic sort of creature, this just never sounds like a good thing, and almost immediately turns me off of the idea of sleeping with someone... but WHY? I think because I relate it to memories of guys who just kinda took what they want... "to get some pussy"... when I am so much more than just a sopping wet thing to acquire and brag to friends about LOL