The Best Sex Positions For Achieving a G-Spot Orgasm
The Best Sex Positions For Achieving a G-Spot Orgasm
To clear up some of that confusion, yes, the G-spot does exist. According to Planned Parenthood, it's located "about an inch or so inside the vaginal opening on the upper vaginal wall — closest to the belly button." Experts often recommend doing the "come hither" motion with your fingers as the best way to find it. In general, your G-spot should feel spongy and sensitive. When stimulated, it can create a highly pleasurable experience.
A big part of really maximizing G-spot stimulation is making sure you're in the mood for arousal and natural lubrication — though it's always a good idea to have some extra lube handy, in addition. That way, you can really experience the pleasure. Take some time to do whatever feels best for you in terms of foreplay — candles, baths, nipple play, and more.
Then, make sure you or your partner are giving attention to the area that's needed during penetration — whether with fingers, a sex toy, a penis, or a strap-on dildo. Most importantly, lose the idea that you have to orgasm. Oftentimes, putting the pressure on yourself to have an orgasm can result in, well, not being able to have an orgasm. Instead, focus on the stimulation and how sensations feel, and lose the "I have to orgasm" mentality.
If you're ready to give it a try, here are a few of the best positions that can increase your chances of G-spot orgasm more than others.