How can I be thoughtful and considerate in marriage? A question of investment?

When we live with people we need love and also we need to give love that we produce.

Love is not a mechanical feeling that flows in waves of feelings and falls asleep mentally.

We keep our minds busy knowing that loving thoughts precede loving actions.

When we just fell in love, it was natural for us to be thoughtful and thoughtful. We spent hours dreaming of our beloved, we asked ourselves, what were we doing, we rehearsed admirable things many times, nice to say and then we enjoyed sweet memories of the moments we spent together. We could say with sincerity: "I can not stop thinking about you".

Perhaps in most couples, things begin to change after formalizing the marriage or deciding to start living together.

The sparks of romance are consumed to become gray coals, and the motivation for reflection is cooled.

Little by little, our attention turns to work, to friends, to the problems that we have to solve, to our personal desires, to ourselves.

After a while, we begin to ignore the needs of our partner without realizing it. Marriage has added another person to our universe. We must learn to be reflective in order to obtain the benefits of walking in two, in the end we can regret the opportunities we lose from showing love and also being able to receive.

The lack of consideration is a silent enemy to our love relationship. Maybe men struggle more with being considered than women. Men have the ability to concentrate like a laser on one thing and forget about the rest of the world.

Find the balance and learn to invest LOVE.