Hey @tuckerdad300, welcome to steemit. I can relate to your story, having kids is what calmed me down... It did take 5 though lol.
We had two born in the same year, but not twins. Twin boys will get interesting as the get older. The tough times aren't behind you yet 😉.

But you've got a good attitude, when life throws you obstacles it's not to bring you to a holt in life. It's teaching you to dig deep and find a way to overcome. And it seems like your doing that well.
I highly recommend checking out @greetersguild, your welcome to use the #greetersguild tag in your posts to help you get exposure and support.
But I highly advise you to join their discord group https://discord.gg/V383U3t
Steemit can seem like your paddling for you life and not getting anywhere at times. But this group is here to help and mentor members to help us all become more successful, there are alot of great and helpful people in there.

See you around @tuckerdad300.