Wow I so feel your pains I too was getting a lot of grief from my girlfriend for liking photos on instagram for me it was super models or bikini models. Then I started on here and I dont even pay attention to that stuff anymore she likes that I use steemit a lot more and we have gotten along a lot better now. I see you don’t have a Steemit Profile Picture I made a contest post on the bottom is link that will teach you, then after you make yours feel free to enter the contest to create mine. here https://steemit.com/contest/@isteemithard/design-isteemithard-a-profile-picture-avatar-contest-10-winner-of-9