HOW I SEE RELATIONSHIP
A grown up man knows & has one WOMAN(as his world). He knows what captures her and how to get her. You can't keep pleasing a lady through ONE WAY, be creative to capture her then she will be melting in a mode that is amazing. A guy has a DIFFERENT VERSION of himself and it's only grown up men that can display it.. A woman is MORE THAN RUBBIES!! She too has different version that makes her a WONDER.
Both partners have to display love in a new dimension it only in that way SWEETNESS occurs!!!
Many times, we wished we had that one person that does really knows us inside out; It could be very frustrating but you know what? Just keep calm, everything will fix itself soon!!.
IN CONCLUSION: I will prefer finding someone who wants to INVEST IN ME, LEARN FROM ME, SEE ME WIN, SUPPORT MY VISION and FALL IN LOVE WITH ME DAILY. It's not a hard task indeed! But looks hard most time we just have to work towards it CREATE OUR MAN through the guy we are in a relationship with. CREATE OUR WOMAN through the lady we are in a relationship with.
INVEST IN ME: I don't spend money alone for things and yet a guy can't invest in me. Can't give out things to me no matter the circumstance..
LEARN FROM ME: When I correct him OR give my opinion to him about what I think he should see from both views and balance it. There are most men that cannot buy the ideas, opinion of the ladies around them even their wife or female daughters/friends because the are scared that things may not go well OR that the outcome may be more rewarding to the lady than himself. Humble yourself, learn to be better to yourself through other people opinion than yours alone. Ladies are FANTASTIC we don't talk because we wish to but because we want to reason in a higher dimension also reason with you guys to make una the BEST!!. Same to some women, I know some don't value men opinion nor learn from the men the are in a relationship with. The think the know it all. The men also needs us to give them listening ears, like their view, it makes them fly on EAGLE'S WINGS there after your own view the can now see them & the will want to hear us! If the guys don't feel good how do you want them to listen to us; If a women can't get the attention she deserves how do you expect her to hear you out and produce a solution/outcome or even give you joy that moment.
SEE YOU WIN: Nobody likes to see his/her love one not progressing. Uphold and help someone you love actualize their dream makes you more dear to them and part of their success story.
SUPPORT MY VISION: A vision needs determination above all encouragement.. There are hard times, smooth times also times where we just wanna lean on another person & gain back the hope to keep on pursing our goals. At times we just want to hear all will be well; Most times we wanna be alone but in all we try to smile when all goes well OR not. So if you have to be in a relationship understand the vision of your partner, create time to laugh with the person in order to reduce the stress he/she had that day above all see to it that the inner JOY of the person comes to be.
FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU DAILY: Falling in love should not just be for that moment, things happening OR because of situations that needs help etc!! Individuals should fall in love with their partner every day it should be a DAY-TO-DAY activity not withstanding.. It should be like a FRESH WINE ever new and refreshing, energizing all the time, this is will be backed up by displaying love in DIFFERENT VERSION!!.
Very true.